What assumptions do people make about you?
There’s something about the name “William” that draws people to giving me nicknames. “Bill”, “Billy”, “Will”, and “Liam” are all common ones I’ve been called before. This phenomenon is most commonly done by the more outgoing people I meet, but I’ve been called different names so many times I don’t quite know how to categorize it. People assume they can make instant friends with me by trying to be “casual” and “cool” by using a nickname. I hate it. A name is possibly the most “personal” quality that a person can have. In a way, names define us like nothing else can, even if most names aren’t truly unique. A name is a descriptor, a quick definition of who someone is without explanation necessary. I’m also rather attached to my name; a name is one of few constants throughout a person’s life, and I happen to like mine a lot. I’m stuck with it, and I’m happy with it. Now, to address nicknames. Nicknames are usually reserved for the closest of friends. A friendship takes months or years ...